“I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career.” – Gloria Steinem
Welcome back! I’m so excited that you came back for more!
Today I want to talk to you about choosing a sex toy. Let’s just call a spade a spade here. That is what they are…sex toys. They were designed to help you (and your partner) enjoy sex more, be open to new things and hopefully end in an amazing orgasm!
But my partner will be intimidated by my vibrator!
Well he shouldn’t be! I say this because of my experience working in the adult novelty industry for many years. You will be happy to know that there are many men who enjoy using a toy as much as women do. That’s right. This is NOT a replacement for your man. Most men really enjoy watching their partner masturbate just as you enjoy watching him masturbate when he is totally turned on by you! I know that I like watching my man get off because I turn him on so much!
Now that we’ve cleared that up, lets talk options.
Okay, so there are many choices when choosing a toy. There are very inexpensive toys and very expensive toys. I want to talk to you about the benefits of purchasing a toy that might be considered a luxury option such as a Lelo, a Jimmy Jane or a Jopen brand of vibrators (just as a side note, Blush is also a good quality brand at a very nice price point) as opposed to a cheaper version and why you’ll want to do just that.
First of all, the overall quality is better. With today’s technology being what it is, when you invest in a really good vibrator you will have it for many years to come if you take care of it.
It’s how much? I know it can be daunting to pay upwards of $99 for a good toy but let me tell you what you will get for that price point. First, you will get medical grade silicone, which is what hospitals use. This is to ensure that the toy won’t harbor bacteria if cleaned and maintained properly. Next, they have rechargeable technology which is great because you won’t have to constantly buy new batteries (and by the way, it really sucks when you are about to climax and the batteries die)! Also, the quality of the motor is more superior to that of a toy that carries batteries. You will get more power as well as more vibration pattern options with this type of motor. And finally, they are waterproof, which is amazing! This is great for those of you whose only “me” time is in the shower! You don’t have to worry about short circuiting your toy at that exact moment of orgasm!
Just to recap…when deciding which toy you’d like to purchase, think of it as an investment. High quality = a great experience. At hernoveltease.com we pride ourselves on providing high quality merchandise at great price points to meets your needs. But if you are still unsure of what works best for you, please ask! You can leave a comment below or if you want some specific advice, please use the Contact Us link on our website for suggestions.
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Until next time…
So you’ve decided to join me in this journey…welcome aboard!
You might be thinking why am I here? I don’t need to use sex toys. Everything in my sex life is great. Okay, that may be true but I’m not sure I believe that, ha ha. Finding new ways to connect with your partner can enhance your sexual experience as well as open the lines of communication, which in itself is very sexy!
So how did I get here, you might be thinking. Well, I have spend 7 collect years in the pleasure products (porn for those of you who want to put a label on it) industry. And what I have come to know is that women are looking for a way to satisfy their sexual desires and not feel dirty about it. I have talked to countless women who feel so embarrassed or ashamed that one, they don’t have orgasms regularly and two, they want to but not sure how.
Enter HerNovelTease. We are here to help you find your sexual “sweet spot”. Once you try out a pleasure product, vibrator, sex toy…whatever you’d like to call it, you will feel so empowered you’ll wonder why you waited so long!
On this blog you will learn about types of sex toys, how to use them alone or with a partner, and how to introduce them confidently into your sexual repertoire.
I look forward to you joining me on this journey of sexual self-discovery and learning about your body and what makes it purrrr!
I welcome questions and comments, but please remember we are keeping it sex positive and classy here. I’d love to hear your feedback and questions, so please leave a comment below so we can start the conversation.
With many thanks!